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How to Become a Winner

by Fatima Da on March 6, 2010

It was a chilly cold evening the moon was out,the house was quiet everyone had gone to bed . I was so tired but felt the urge to wine down having had a lovely busy day. I sunk into the sofa glazing at and admiring the full moon hoping I would doze off; that didn’t work [...]

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Stay Motivated! Not With the Way I feel Right Now

by Fatima Da on February 28, 2010

Do you often feel like this? Not able to stay motivated, can’t be asked to get off your backside or simply make decisions to get on with your day to day activities? Well! Every now and then I have felt this way. People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing- that’s why [...]

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Procrastination Tips – 12 Ways to Shove Procrastination Out Yes !

February 20, 2010

Essentially this post aims to provide you with a few procrastination(s) tips I usually apply to refrain from this duck-and-dive habit . Procrastination is characterized by our lovely ability,Lovely ability? Excuse me ……Procrastination is a way of consistently postponing an action or task until a later date. It’s sometimes so difficult to get rid of [...]

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Aaarrrggghhh!! What do you do when angry?

February 15, 2010

Anger is one of the many universal emotions we all express every now and then; It can be viewed as Rancour, Resentment, Exasperation, Fury (Blind), Rage…It is the term used for a general displeasure. It can be productive or counterproductive depending on the course and nature of events. For the purpose of this post I focus briefly on [...]

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Happy Valentine’s Day

February 12, 2010

To some valentine’s day has been greatly commercialized and holds no value; to others it’s a day to send out poems, gifts and exchange love messages. I found this link Valentine’s DayVideo informative and interesting. Whatever your take is on valentine’s I hope you have a lovely day..Below are some of my favourite quotes to kick start you into this [...]

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Two People,Yes, Two Lasting Friends

February 7, 2010

Friendship
Such love I cannot analyse;
It does not rest in lips or eye,
Neither in neither Kisses nor Caress.
Partly, I know, it’s gentleness

And understanding in one word
Or in brief letters. It’s preserved
By trust and by respect and awe,
These are the words I’m feeling for.

Two people, yes, two lasting friends.
The giving comes, the talking ends.
There is no measure [...]

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Finding Your Inner Strength

February 3, 2010

Inner strength; I often wonder how well we do use this ultimate life learning tool which is strongly linked to willpower and self discipline. Of late I had struggled to keep up with my target of writing every so often each week. Hence I write this post to explore what may be going on subsequently [...]

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How Do We Find Meaning in Life ?

January 29, 2010

Just a little bit of existential philosophy/therapy; the beauty of this aspect of philosophy is its emphasis on human’s freedom, choices, responsibility and problems that arise with existence. We may often be caught-up with the busyness of the day where sometimes we become overwhelmed, anxious , stressed and have no time to question what this [...]

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62 More Personal Development Blogs – Watch List 2010

January 24, 2010

This is an additional list of 62 personal development blogs to watch in 2010, the concept has been pioneered by Problogger who encouraged building a list within your niche. I have been inspired by Steven Aitchison’s list which I have built on rather than reiterate , Although I have been soooo… tempted to add some of my favourite bloggers form Steven’s list.
My concept [...]

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Gratitude Reap the Benefits

January 20, 2010

We have just about started the New Year and a lot has already happened around the world enough for us all to show gratitude at least for being here. So as you are read this post please start by being grateful in your heart again. “Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have [...]

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