Loving One’s Self & Those Close To Them
Finding love is important and to be able to care for one’s self is even more important. It is hard to adore someone that does not care for  themselves. After all if one is not worthy of their own love, who should take that chance? Truly, giving love to others is one of the best ways to open up the heart and receive love. Without an open heart the mind is closed and can lead to a poor attitude toward those who care for you, therefore pushing others away. Take a step back and evaluate the feelings you give in your close relationships. Ask, yourself, are you lovable or do you push those close to you away? Ask those hard questions and be honest with yourself, change comes through acknowledgment.
Daily Meditation & A Spiritual Self
Some might wonder how relaxation through meditation or deepening their spiritual self could encourage love. It’s a good question, one that must be understood and here’s why. Many get into relationships for the wrong reasons, rebound, lonely, financial or maybe even adoration of convenience. This opens the door to trouble and will likely lead to an ending, therefore losing at love once again. Becoming more in tune with your inner feelings helps clear the mind, making you think things through. Those hasty decisions as well as poor decisions will come to an end. Meditation helps relax the body, free the mind and therefore improve your inner self. This means strengthening your emotions, letting go of the past and learning to heal from the inside out. Improving yourself makes you more lovable, letting all that baggage go makes more room in the heart and it is noticeable to others!
Attracting adoration is more than just physical attraction; it is about loving you, as well as improving emotions, thoughts and feelings. Letting go of the past and understanding that how you treat others can help others care for  you as well is the best way to win at love.
12. October 2009 at 1:26 pm
Thanks for sharing, great blog!
If I am feeling unlovable or not loved. I just remember that Jesus Christ loves me unconditionally which in return opens my heart and mind to all possibilities!
12. October 2009 at 2:17 pm
Hilarious that you just added me and I found this post. I have been thinking a lot today about self love. I enjoyed this post.
12. October 2009 at 11:53 pm
Excellent post…… i enjoyed reading it. Keep it up.
14. October 2009 at 5:39 am
People spend too much time thinking about love. When you don't need love, love is there.
15. October 2009 at 2:23 pm
with your good article, now I understand about the true meaning of love
17. October 2009 at 11:21 am
I agree with you about the importance of self love. One tends to project outwards what one feels inside and if one feel hate and negativism then that this projected outwards, to other people.
Came here from TT's!
17. October 2009 at 2:30 pm
Nita found you beacuse I added your blog to my reading list and gave you an award of link love in my "A Lovely Award" post. http://thistimethisspace.com/10/15/a-lovely-award Please keep the meme going so we all get new readers.
timethief
P.S. I hate using this Blogger identity to leave comments but I have no choice
18. October 2009 at 10:24 am
Thanks Babe AKA Timethief…. Nice of you to include my blog in your reading list..I have posted a link on my blog and wld keep in touch to keep this going….